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Cesarean Section Awareness Month

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The month of April is C-Section awareness month and I have been researching my head off about C-Sections. I will not provide statistics today being that I will lose self-control and post 2 million links, diagrams, and photos. Instead I will discuss the way they affect the women who undergo them, primary reason being, that’s what has touched me the most.

I have spoken to women who have received C-Sections and their stories just pull at the strings of my heart. None of these women wanted to be named, however, have given me permission to share their stories. After discussing/interviewing these women about their C-Sections I came to the consensus that their stories needed to be told. What I mean by this, is that the scars left were not physical but emotional and that they need to be addressed and tended to. Many women do not want/plan to have a C-Section, when they are told they going to have one it is usually after being told that they have failed at something or that either they or their unborn child’s life is at stake. So many of these woman were not told about “Gentle C-Sections”, having free arms and the ability to hold the baby after delivery. They are not told that is normal for heart rates to drop. They are not given the opportunity to progress at a natural rate. They are told that if they do not go through with the procedure, they will deliver a stillborn baby. So many of these woman are truly traumatized by their experiences. Many cannot watch clips, shows, videos, etc about Cesarean, it triggers their unresolved issues with their Cesarean.

Luckily VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) awareness has been on the rise. Families are becoming informed that it’s quite safe to strive for a VBAC, they are discovering that they have rights in delivery rooms, and they are seeking out doctors who are willing to help them achieve a successful VBAC! The aspect of families yearning for a VBAC that I am not happy about, is the opposition. I have heard of doctors telling patients that if they attempt a VBAC “We will wheel you out of a room with pale gray lips and a dead baby resting on your chest.” Scare tactic statements are NOT OKAY, they are unethical and cruel. You have a right to attempt to achieve a VBAC. It hurts me to say this but sometimes you will have to fight tooth and nail to achieve your VBAC, you need to have a strong support group! Be prepared for nurses and doctors pressuring and scaring you out of your decision. Whatever they tell you, QUESTION THEM, I cannot stress it enough; find out why they want to do something and find out what they believe the statistics are. A birthday party, dinner, concert, vacation, or any engagement is NOT an excuse/cause for a C-Section! Stay strong, be positive, get educated, find support, attempt a VBAC.

Public Breastfeeding; Should It, Could It, Would It?

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As of late, the topic of public breastfeeding has been debated by the media. This is primarily due to the recent posts on instagram by models Gisele Bundchen (http://instagram.com/p/hvz4wzntH_/) and Nicole Ashley (http://instagram.com/p/kcqcGpKR8k/) . Both are working, breastfeeding, models who decided to make their acts of breastfeeding public via instagram. Both received strong backlash. Now, there are a few things I would like to address while speaking on this topic. I will try my very best to remain unbiased and unopinionated.

Now that I got that little disclaimer out the way, I’ll first speak about Gisele’s now infamous photo. The media roared when the post was made on instagram; comments both praising and scolding the mother poured into her comment section. Conversation then blew up, and overshadowed all other backlash, when people started to claim that the photo lacked realism. This factor is what caused me to raise my eyebrow, do we want breastfeeding to be glamorized? I always believed that acts that are glamorize are acts that the public, especially our youth, will attempt to repeat. This leads me to Nicole’s post; majority of her negative comments were solely scolding her. Mind you, her photo is much more realistic in regards to the average woman (those without glam squads). This made me ask the million dollar question, what is the real issue here? Many say it’s race, others say it’s the circumstance, and some say its the way the photo was taken. Nicole Ashley is of color, the photo was taken with a low resolution camera, she is dressed in an average maxi dress, and she claims to be on the go while breastfeeding her son. What is the variable that makes people’s remarks and opinions so different in comparison to Gisele?

Many are arguing that Nicole’s picture is necessary and needed for African Americans to see. This opinion is based on a study produced by the CDC (http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5911a2.htm#tab1) that, in conclusion, states that the American average of women who attempt breastfeeding is 73.4 percent. Black Americans, however, were proven to attempt breastfeeding at the dramatically decreased percentage of 54.4 percent. The alleged cause for the lack of attempted breastfeeding amongst Black Americans is due to the failure of these women seeing mothers that look like them breastfeeding. This then leads me to ask, should women breastfeed publicly? If they do, could breasts be seen as body parts with meaningful purposes, rather than sexual aspects of women? Say public breastfeeding becomes an everyday norm, should women cover themselves?Should women do such an intimate act in public? Would the act cause damage to a youthful audience?

Lotus Births and Delayed Cutting of the Cord

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Lotus Births and Delayed Cutting of the Cord

A lotus birth is the constant attachment of both the umbilical and placenta until it naturally dries and detaches. As of late, this practice has come into the light of the media and is up for question. Is cutting the cord traumatic for newborns?

I personally do not find it to be a mandatory practice; I do however, firmly believe in the delay of cutting the cord.My primary reason being that infants who are detached from their umbilical cord immediately are losing 1/3 of their blood. The remaining blood is within the placenta and cord. My second, but no less important, reason is that it delays the separation between parent and newborn. Therefore, enabling time for precious and important skin to skin contact. My concern with lotus births, are hygiene and safety. Both seem like they are managable, however, things happen. I have this fear of the placenta and baby somehow heading in different directions ending in a painful separation. In regards to hygiene, this is a case by case concern. What some consider clean is not the same or someone else; and I would hate for an innocent newborn to have to suffer due to a lack of judgement. The umbilical cord and placenta are organs, they decay, have odors, and more importantly, are high maintenance they are not something to take lightly.

What are your thoughts on Lotus births?